I have an 8" dbh silver maple thats been guyed for 2 years now. it was always leaning out slightly looking for sun under a few other trees. when we got our ice storm, it layed over on the ground.
The competing pines, save one, were destroyed and thusly removed, repairing the shadeing problem. I guyed it to the remaining pine with 5/16 cable. first year, due to small girth 2/3 up, I wrapped the cable through hose loosley. I went back after one year, and released the cable, and the tree only drifted over about 2 feet at the top. I went ahead and screw anchored it then since it didn't need much tension. the shaded side is filling in nicely now. expect I'll pull the cable late this year. I want just one more season to help the roots take good hold, and not have to hold against high spring winds with a full canopy of leaves.
Haven't done but one spruce, and it was doing fine until one week I was out of town, and the homeowner saw some dead needles and had it removed, and replaced by the local landscape co. To this day I believe it would have been fine, but, I'll never know now. BTW, it was guyed in winter, and removed in the spring. When I went by to clean it up, it was out of the ground for 3 days, and still green enough that you couldn't easily pull needles from it.
-Ralph