I'm not sure I understand your question, or why would you need to manually switch from one to the other? Isn't that what the thermostat(s) would do? Wouldn't running the owb idle the heat pump on its own(two separate systems), and the heat pump would kick in if the boiler cools down, say you were gone for say several days. I see the owb as a manual system, and the heat pump as an automatic system. Why connect them?
I do not have an owb. We do have a 'ground source' heat pump/ac (with a built in 50 amp electrical heat mode if the water fails to circulate), and wood stove. I'm guessing we set the thermostat at 70, and the fan function to circulate full time in the winter pushing/pulling air through the return air and duct system. If the wood stove is burning, the heat pump does not come on, but its fan is circulating air. When the wood stove is out and the temp drops below 70 degrees, the heat pump kicks in.
In the summer we manually change the thermostat to 78 degrees and manually switch the Mode function from Heat to Cool, and ac comes on when the house is above 78.
There are three 'manual' temperature related setting on the thermostat. Changing the Mode on the thermostat to Heat, Cool, or Emergency Heat (electrical heat), and the fan Mode to on/off. In the Off mode the fan cycles on/off several times per hour. In the On mode it runs continuously. If there is a failure in the Heat Mode system then the Emergency Heat(electric heat) automatically kicks in.
Our system components are the house well (with submersible pump); two large bladder tanks (water storage for fewer submersible pump cycling, and longer run times), heat pump, electric hot water heater. The heat pump has three separate systems. The water circulating system, the refrigerant and compressor, and the back-up electric heat system.
EDIT: The fourth system would be air circulating system.
An air/air heat pump may operate differently.
Ah! Your running the same fan for the heat pump and owb to circulate air through the duct work? And if run continuous, then it would get too hot in the house using the owb?