I use a pin type moisture meter. Inexpensive and accurate. It has been so hot and dry here (southwest Missouri), that I have been able to get sycamore down to 10% (close to kiln dry) in the open air. White oak, in particular takes time to dry.
Another way to determine moisture content is to take two samples, say around two pounds, and weigh them. Calculations are easier if you trim them so that they weigh the same. Put one sample back in the stack. Dry the other in an oven at around 300 degrees until it is bone dry, then weigh it again. Moisture content equals the change in weight divided by the oven dry weight. For example, a 1-kilogram piece that dries to 0.5 kg (metric is easier than pounds) has a 100% moisture content. From time to time, weigh the sample piece in the stack. If it started out the same weight, you can use a ratio of the weight divided by the .5 kg it will weigh (as determined by the first test piece). For example, when it weighs 0.6 kg, its moisture content is (0.6-0.5)/0.5= 0.2= 20% moisture content. When it weighs 0.54 kg, it's moisture content is (0.54-0.50)/0.50=0.08= 8% moisture content, which is the typical target for kiln dry. On second though, get yourself a pin type moisture meter. In addition to being simpler, your wife won't get upset when she finds a charred piece of wood in the oven.