I wonder what Energy-Mate you have - I haven't heard them mentioned in a while. I have one myself. I wanted an indoor setup, but couldn't afford a brand-new boiler AND the plumbing and controls etc. to install it, at the time, so I compromised and bought an Energy-Mate from a guy on eBay who takes them out of basements where people want to get rid of them, and fixes them up - new paint, fully relined, pressure-tested, cleaned, etc. I figured I'd use it either for several years or until it gave out, then get something better and more efficient.
I don't know what unit you've got there but mine definitely gets only 4-6h. It's a pretty large firebox, but it's super inefficient compared to what a modern boiler will do and I'd be shocked if it was more than 30% efficient. The forced draft is nice in terms of never having to worry about your chimney drafting well, but I've had plenty of second thoughts - it's not a HUGE amount of power, but it needs it the entire burn cycle. A natural-draft damper setup can be adjusted. This thing is basically on or off. IMO you hae to watch your loads more. On warm days, too big of a fire runs the risk of overheating even if the draft fan is off and sealed tight. I rigged mine to force zones in the house open if this happens so at least the heat gets dumped where it's useful, but still... It's a waste.
I went with a slightly more sophisticated system than people are suggesting above (I'm an amateur electronics hobbyist so I built a Raspberry-Pi controlled unit that I had all kinds of plans for, then had another baby and kinda stopped as soon as it was barely "good enough"...). You CAN just leave the ash door open while you're lighting it, and stand there until it's up to temp and the low-limit kicks on the draft fan. But that's annoying and not safe if you're going to walk away, so a snap-disc set at 140 to turn it off, and a simple light-switch timer in parallel to it that you set at like 20 minutes is a good way to address turning the draft on and off at the start/end of a burn.
You want a bigger swing on your high/low limit though. You don't want to set it close to 165 or the system will "hunt" a lot and produce a really inefficient burn. It's much better to let it swing to like 185 or higher - whatever you feel safe at (and your plumbing can handle), and then down to like 165 or so on the low side. Nothing is going to make this unit amazingly efficient, but it's definitely MORE efficient when it's running hotter - and more efficient at heating your house, too. Usually you also set the aquastat up so that any demand forces the draft fan on even if the boiler temp doesn't require it. Most of these don't have those 100-gallon reserve that those "I don't even split my wood - just dump it in with the Bobcat" folks have on the shed-sized beasts they have. What happens is, if it's been a bit since the last call for heat in the house, there's loss in the lines that the boiler needs to replace. But the aquastat well is almost always on top of the boiler - where you draw the heat off from. So the first few gallons you draw off to heat the place don't register as a dropping temp to the aquastat, and it's not running the fan. Then, bam, the cold water coming into the boiler reaches the top and bam! suddenly it's 145F or whatever you set your mixing valve to. Now the system panics, shuts off the circulator and stops heating your house, and fires the boiler - several minutes later than it should have.
It's also good, if you have digital thermostats, to set them up for a bigger "swing" too. Wood is just not like oil - it's not an on/off system. It has an efficiency curve in its burn cycle, and damping it down doesn't put it out - it's still producing 10% output in most cases, and if you aren't putting that in your house, it's going up the chimney. It's better to have something more like 66-74 than 69-71. Just like a wood stove, in a way.
A digital aquastat is really nice here. Until I built my HotPi unit I was using an L7224U and pretty happy with it - they're cheap on eBay FWIW. I didn't bother with something to disable the draft fan, so it would keep running after the burn was done - but that didn't happen much because I had to run the thing flat-out just to keep up with that "Polar Vortex" we had. Anyway, I wired my zones into the "demand" input, set my low-limit to 165F and my high-limit to 190F and had pretty good success with that for a long time.
Love a pic or two - I'm curious about what unit you have.