I don't have a history on this site, but I spent 30 years in the auto industry (engineering/vehicle testing) working alongside Ford and have a good friend who is a Ford FSE.
Do not get a 6.4. When they go its catastrophic.
The 6.0 weakness is the coolant system, and mostly due to Ford trying for a better JD Powers rating by extending the coolant maintenance to 100k miles. If they kept the coolant change to 50k as it was in the 7.3 the customers would not have had the cooler clogging, the EGR cooler then overheating / leaking and the resultant head gasket failures. And even if you change out the cooler and coolant after clogging and install a bypass filter that does partial filtering, once the contaminant is in the system close monitoring and future cooler changes will be more frequent.
However if you do keep up the maintenance the motor is good, especially the first and last years. Buying used requires very good due diligence not only of the maintenance records, but having someone with a Ford IDS to check the motor for compression balance, injector balance, other sensor functions, and a look at the oil to coolant temperature balance to know the state of the motor. It's worth the two/three hundred dollars to have a good tech check out the motor.
The 7.3 has a good history, but has its own weaknesses, the worst being the same as with any diesel motor; was the air filtering maintained well or if the motor was "dusted". Dusting is a failure in the integrity of the intake sealing and usually can be easily checked by looking at the turbo intake vanes for abrasive wear. And with a scanner check for relative compression, if the inner cylinders have the lower compression. The other weakness from a used truck point of view is that every 7.3 owner thinks they have a motor made of gold due to poor rep of the 6.0, which again is overstated.
I've owned both 7.3 and 6.0.