This is off topic, but oh well!
Heath, there was no one video or book for me to start with. I figured out three strand first by looking at another splice on a boat that was docked in a lake by my house. Then hollow/single braid was next. Norm Hall explained it to me a bit, then the rest I figured out trial-n-error and by reading publications from different rope manufacturers. Double braid I learned from the instructions that come with the Toss Wand, and I just don't remember the rest.
Now you can get the Splicing video by Brion Toss. Few people have complaints about it. The price of the video will pay itself off in one or two splices you do for yourself!
Most importantly, talk to as many people as you can, read as many books as you can, find out from the manufacturer how they want a particular rope spliced, and practice, practice, practice.
love
nick
ps- Tell Charly I said hi. I climbed with him at the TreeHouse Project!