If it is a tree in an urban area, you can sometimes guage the relative age by the age of the surrounding development.
In our area, where there was extensive logging at the turn of the 20th century (1900), I estimate tree age by whether the tree would have been around when the area was logged.
The easiest way to count rings is to get an increment borer, drill out a core and count the rings. When I was a timber cruiser, we used to have to do it at every sample plot.