Wow, can't imagine how that felt. Must have been awful.Sean, so glad to hear things worked out in the end. When you raise kids (or are alive in this world) some rough moments occur.
When our daughter (first of 3 kids) was in 1st grade we threw a birthday party for her. We were relative newcomers (been there 3 yrs) in a small country town where I operated a farm and cattle operation. So not strangers to anyone, just not from there. We invited, I don't know, maybe 5--8 of her friends/schoolmates (written invitations, rsvp requested). No parents responded in any manner, but we figured even a couple of kids would make a party. NO ONE SHOWED. My wife and I tried to put a brave face on, and play all the games and such. It was one of the saddest moments of my life--and at a few weeks from turning 70, I've had several. Our daughter years later did not even remember that this had occurred.
Life is tough. Wear a helmet.