Family issues can sure cause a a mess.
I love how you and your in-laws are the ones there doing all the work
, and I would guess have born a lot, if not all the burden of dealing with the situation
.
With the wife having 6 siblings I know it all to well, 2.5hr trips to Ohio either way then mowing for 3.5hrs( with the mower I haul down) when I get there are common place as my FIL struggles with dementia and goes back and forth with doing well and not. The great thing is that 2 of her siblings are close in proximity and do a lot, and another a bit further away and helps so we have a pretty fair and good working relationship. The others come into town and let us know what we are doing wrong
. The fights and back biting when he first lost his drivers license were, lets say a bit child like.
Fortunately my wife has "left her father and mother(and family) and is cleaving to her husband
and that makes it all work out fine in our relationship
. It took a while, but once she went across the threshold she did a great job breaking free of the family grip.
Sounds like you and your wife/in-laws have a great relationship, you are a fortunate guy.
Now lets talk about the other stuff before the mods send us to Band Camp for not staying on topic LOL
Did you burn the cord of wood and how did you end up getting the fireplace in the suburban.