Don't be offended, discouraged, etc... take what you read as feedback to do better. That is why (most of us) are here is to learn. no better opportunity than the laboratory of your own experiences. Not everything you read here is 100% accurate, so use negative critique as an excuse to explore their point, read, study then make your own determination based on the broader knowledge base, not on a single opinion. Finally, once you reach that conclusion, be comfortable in your own skin and don't feel like you need to justify yourself to anybody.
IMHO, of course
IMHO, of course