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Damn Doc P...had you ever given this angle a thought...A lady comes here for the first time, joining this site, and explains a problem she's had with a 'John Travolta' cool boy tree-cutter. Things went south...but she's got nutz enough to bring her story here. I understand the 'two sides to every story' deal...but I think the gal is legit. Why wouldn't she be? Who in their right mind would come here as a lady, and spill their guts, knowing damn good and well, she'll be picked apart, or had at the damn stake...on this 99.9% testosterone driven, male site?? I don't believe the woman's parading around her yard in a skimpy ass two piece looking for anything to be done. I think she brought a legit problem here and is looking for advice as to how to handle it.

Sure we're having a little derail and some fun in this...show me a thread that doesn't?? You can't honestly say this lady is trying to manipulate or play us on this site?...now can ya?
 
Okay Dr. If you are so smart, please enlighten us all: Why are you such a crabass?
We are all enjoying the afternoon, good conversation, a few laughs, and here you come like a black hole in our universe.
And you don't need to answer that question, I can imagine.

Btw, I've been sitting at my computer half naked all afternoon.
How you like them apples?
Since you asked: I would puke them apples up.

Hey, you went looking for a dimwitted sucker to do your tree work and you found him. Why are you complaining?
 
Well damn Unkle...'bout time you liked something I said. How ya been doing? Working that crew of chillins' like slaves I hope? Gotta get some payback by any means. You better be...the more hands the merrier when it comes to the team, collective effort.
 
Damn Doc P...had you ever given this angle a thought...A lady comes here for the first time, joining this site, and explains a problem she's had with a 'John Travolta' cool boy tree-cutter. Things went south...but she's got nutz enough to bring her story here. I understand the 'two sides to every story' deal...but I think the gal is legit. Why wouldn't she be? Who in their right mind would come here as a lady, and spill their guts, knowing damn good and well, she'll be picked apart, or had at the damn stake...on this 99.9% testosterone driven, male site?? I don't believe the woman's parading around her yard in a skimpy ass two piece looking for anything to be done. I think she brought a legit problem here and is looking for advice as to how to handle it.

Sure we're having a little derail and some fun in this...show me a thread that doesn't?? You can't honestly say this lady is trying to manipulate or play us on this site?...now can ya?

Yes! I can and I do. Do you have a problem with me?
 
Well damn Unkle...'bout time you liked something I said. How ya been doing? Working that crew of chillins' like slaves I hope? Gotta get some payback by any means. You better be...the more hands the merrier when it comes to the team, collective effort.


Now that made me laugh out loud. I confess, I did ponder a moment before actually taking the drastic step of actually liking something you said, but decided to give it a shot since you seem to be so nice and sensible in this thread (unlike many others threads! :laugh:)

In fact, I found a funny picture that I've been saving just for you for when you have your next rant about something silly. You'll have to wait for it, though. :p

Semper Fi, buddy! :cheers:
 
well, this thread took a turn,,,,:dizzy:
Jeff
just got here i musta missed somethin. all i saw was some wacko john travolta wannabe tree trimmer.chicken on the grill. and sumpin about wimmins in GA. that and our before dirt was invented @stihl sawing.
welcome to AS @TNTreeHugger. seriously hope ya get you problem worked out. with the exception of me and about 20 others there are a damn good bunch of people here. :cheers:
 
No more than a problem you wanna create, brother. Ball's in your court...

Sounds like you do have a problem with me, that's your problem. To me is looks like you are more into kissing ass and being chummy than being professional. If this woman wanted a professional then she would have gotten one. You are being enamored and played like a patsy. You make me damn nervous. You a tree climber? Run a tree business?

She asked for opinions, she got them. Is there something I am missing?
 
Now that made me laugh out loud. I confess, I did ponder a moment before actually taking the drastic step of actually liking something you said, but decided to give it a shot since you seem to be so nice and sensible in this thread (unlike many others threads! :laugh:)

In fact, I found a funny picture that I've been saving just for you for when you have your next rant about something silly. You'll have to wait for it, though. :p

Semper Fi, buddy! :cheers:
Sounds good...I look forward to the pic...you know it's just a matter of time, righto? Lol. Hope everything's going good on your home front. Work those chillins like there's no tomorrow. They're your best buddies, no doubt. Takes the sting out of a man at times. Appreciate the Semper Fi, from a fellow Vet, no doubt...we do be SuperSplit brothers...
 
Btw, I've been sitting at my computer half naked all afternoon.

Some people, like the Doc. and I, might see above quote as bait to keep some fellas dangling on the thread.

"Sandy" could also be seen as quite an accomplished fisher person.

JMO, it's entertaining but not "real". :)
 
Sounds like you do have a problem with me, that's your problem. To me is looks like you are more into kissing ass and being chummy than being professional. If this woman wanted a professional then she would have gotten one. You are being enamored and played like a patsy. You make me damn nervous. You a tree climber? Run a tree business?

She asked for opinions, she got them. Is there something I am missing?
take a chill pill Doc. or.............
images
 
Sounds good...I look forward to the pic...you know it's just a matter of time, righto? Lol. Hope everything's going good on your home front. Work those chillins like there's no tomorrow. They're your best buddies, no doubt. Takes the sting out of a man at times. Appreciate the Semper Fi, from a fellow Vet, no doubt...we do be SuperSplit brothers...


Well, Im not really a Vet. Just a former Army Guardsman - not qualified to be a proper Vet, but I'm proud of the little bit that I did. Younger bro is a former Marine, older bro is still in the Navy.
 
Damn Doc P...had you ever given this angle a thought...A lady comes here for the first time, joining this site, and explains a problem she's had with a 'John Travolta' cool boy tree-cutter. Things went south...but she's got nutz enough to bring her story here. I understand the 'two sides to every story' deal...but I think the gal is legit. Why wouldn't she be?


If this woman wanted a professional then she would have gotten one.
She asked for opinions, she got them. Is there something I am missing?


Yes, there's quite a bit your missing. First of all, why do you refuse to take her comments at face value? Could it be that she really is telling the truth? If she wanted work done for nothing, then why is she bothering to come here and ask for advice? She's not going to get any help from us who live so far away.

Second of all, I agree with you that there are two sides to every story, and her angle likely doesn't have all the facts, but is that any reason to assume she's lying and manipulating?

Third, she came here for advice and perhaps a bit of sympathy - why do you feel the need to slam her? Do you swat flies with a sledgehammer? If you had something helpful to say that might have been a 'painful truth' moment, didn't it occur to your highly educated mind that being nice about it is much more likely to sink in than being an ass?

And Fourth, there's nothing much any of us can do anyway - AS is what is known as "Social Media." Why be so unsociable? When your friend is crying because his dog died, you don't tell him to quit being such a baby over something so stupid - you pat his had and offer him sympathy, regardless of what you feel about his actions. It's called "kindness."

You really ought to give it a shot sometime. I know they don't teach it in higher level education. You'll have to learn it elsewhere. (Perhaps right here....:rolleyes:)
 
Sounds like you do have a problem with me, that's your problem. To me is looks like you are more into kissing ass and being chummy than being professional. If this woman wanted a professional then she would have gotten one. You are being enamored and played like a patsy. You make me damn nervous. You a tree climber? Run a tree business?

She asked for opinions, she got them. Is there something I am missing?
Doc...listen to me. I don't have a dog in this fight...one way or the other. But I do believe the gals complaint is legit. That's all. I ain't trying to kiss ass or peel the panties off this lady...at some point ya gots to understand this, my man.

Now, as far as me...no I'm not a tree climber, nor a tree man by trade. I spent many yrs in the Marine Corps working on A-6/E Intruders and E/A-B Prowlers, which is there electronic/tactical jamming version of the A-6. Now I work, govt DoD, and have been for yrs, keeping C-17's for the Air Force, in the air. We also do Depot Level maintenance on F-15's, C-5's, and C-130's...

So now let's get beyond my 'dumbass' tree cutting and climbing abilities...or the total lack thereof. You tellin' me I gotta be one or the other to have a say in this? Surely you just phucking with me...righto?? That's what I'm thinkin'...
 
Yes, there's quite a bit your missing. First of all, why do you refuse to take her comments at face value? Could it be that she really is telling the truth? If she wanted work done for nothing, then why is she bothering to come here and ask for advice? She's not going to get any help from us who live so far away.

Second of all, I agree with you that there are two sides to every story, and her angle likely doesn't have all the facts, but is that any reason to assume she's lying and manipulating?

Third, she came here for advice and perhaps a bit of sympathy - why do you feel the need to slam her? Do you swat flies with a sledgehammer? If you had something helpful to say that might have been a 'painful truth' moment, didn't it occur to your highly educated mind that being nice about it is much more likely to sink in than being an ass?

And Fourth, there's nothing much any of us can do anyway - AS is what is known as "Social Media." Why be so unsociable? When your friend is crying because his dog died, you don't tell him to quit being such a baby over something so stupid - you pat his had and offer him sympathy, regardless of what you feel about his actions. It's called "kindness."

You really ought to give it a shot sometime. I know they don't teach it in higher level education. You'll have to learn it elsewhere. (Perhaps right here....:rolleyes:)
Good post Unc and I agree. I think this dude has a big chip on his shoulder he is carrying around from some other bad experience . If we didnt believe anyone at all it would be a hell of a thing.
 
Well, Im not really a Vet. Just a former Army Guardsman - not qualified to be a proper Vet, but I'm proud of the little bit that I did. Younger bro is a former Marine, older bro is still in the Navy.
You're a Vet in my book Stache, whether it was Guardsman or not...you chose to do what a lot of folks have never done...you raised your right hand and took the oath.
 
Yes, there's quite a bit your missing. First of all, why do you refuse to take her comments at face value? Could it be that she really is telling the truth? If she wanted work done for nothing, then why is she bothering to come here and ask for advice? She's not going to get any help from us who live so far away.

Second of all, I agree with you that there are two sides to every story, and her angle likely doesn't have all the facts, but is that any reason to assume she's lying and manipulating?

Third, she came here for advice and perhaps a bit of sympathy - why do you feel the need to slam her? Do you swat flies with a sledgehammer? If you had something helpful to say that might have been a 'painful truth' moment, didn't it occur to your highly educated mind that being nice about it is much more likely to sink in than being an ass?

And Fourth, there's nothing much any of us can do anyway - AS is what is known as "Social Media." Why be so unsociable? When your friend is crying because his dog died, you don't tell him to quit being such a baby over something so stupid - you pat his had and offer him sympathy, regardless of what you feel about his actions. It's called "kindness."

You really ought to give it a shot sometime. I know they don't teach it in higher level education. You'll have to learn it elsewhere. (Perhaps right here....:rolleyes:)
Good post Stache...
 

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