buck futter
ArboristSite Guru
steve,
I have some advise and a little understanding.
You are in a good position in that you are unmarried and don't have kids. What I mean by this is take your time and find the person that is right. Granted we don't know what transpired and its not our business but take this blanket advise. Once you get married and have kids it is tough to turn away, right now be yourself be fair but also be selfish at times, you are your own person, you have rights. It is one thing to compromise but it is another to be untrue to yourself. The compromise is easy to commit to but unless an equal compromise is repaid you will end up resenting the other person and all hell will break loose.
I understand the impact that a lack of sleep can have on people first hand. I make a better than average living but pay the price of having a irregular work schedule and a high stress occupation.
What did I do this weekend. I had to work a couple of 11-7's I had a mid term due, I swing over to my mothers and wired her sunroom for her, went to a birthday party, cleaned out the chimney, threw a little wood in the basement, skun the carrot and found a little time to tinker on some saws. I also found a new home for the ms200t on the bay.
Unfortunately the list of stuff left to do is much longer:jawdrop:
buck
I have some advise and a little understanding.
You are in a good position in that you are unmarried and don't have kids. What I mean by this is take your time and find the person that is right. Granted we don't know what transpired and its not our business but take this blanket advise. Once you get married and have kids it is tough to turn away, right now be yourself be fair but also be selfish at times, you are your own person, you have rights. It is one thing to compromise but it is another to be untrue to yourself. The compromise is easy to commit to but unless an equal compromise is repaid you will end up resenting the other person and all hell will break loose.
I understand the impact that a lack of sleep can have on people first hand. I make a better than average living but pay the price of having a irregular work schedule and a high stress occupation.
What did I do this weekend. I had to work a couple of 11-7's I had a mid term due, I swing over to my mothers and wired her sunroom for her, went to a birthday party, cleaned out the chimney, threw a little wood in the basement, skun the carrot and found a little time to tinker on some saws. I also found a new home for the ms200t on the bay.
Unfortunately the list of stuff left to do is much longer:jawdrop:
buck