Gologit, you sure as heck dont strike me as a lazy guy that would shirk away from work, surely someone in your life taught you how to work, right?
Sure, I learned to work at an early age. I started out packing gear for my uncle who was cutting old growth Redwood. I was thirteen. He, and a lot of the other loggers, taught me how to work.
But they also taught me how to be safe and they went out of their way to make sure I didn't get hurt. Those old timers, as rough and unschooled as they were, made damn sure I didn't get myself into a situation that could hurt me. They showed me how to be safe and they weren't shy about letting me know when I was doing something stupid. Looking back on it I can see where there were times when production suffered because they took time out to show me the hazards involved in what we were doing and to make sure I was in the clear. But...that was their end of the deal. Mine was listening and learning and doing what I was told.
If we take our kids to work with us, no matter what we do for a living, we're exposing them to risk. As a parent we have the absolute duty to our children to minimize that risk. Letting a six year old anywhere near a chipper without being right there beside him doesn't meet the definition of minimizing risk.
I'm not without compassion for the Dad. There is nothing that compares with the pain of losing a child. Nothing. He'll suffer for the rest of his life. And, from his irresponsibility, he's causing the suffering of everyone who knew or loved that little boy. That's a heavy load.
Had he been more attentive or more careful and realized that bad things happen he wouldn't be in the fix he's in now.
His responsibility, his fault entirely. It could have been avoided.