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its been bad for about a year and a half she has felt trapped and was beginning to resent our relationship. neither of us were happy, this maybe what we need time out, sort our heads, it may work out for us, but i dont think it will. i have always wanted to go do a season with my snowboard so plans for next winter are to do that (not this year, dont want to drop the boss in the ????, thats my problem though i think about others too much :dizzy: )

pruner i too have to move back in with me mum, thats gonna be odd and it takes longer to get to work. lorna isnt sure what she is doing, maybe a move to london.

plus point is that i bought this house off of my great uncle 20K under valuation so we should get a bit off cash back, and i can clear my debts....something i have tried to do but couldn't with the pressure of the house.

i will miss her and the house dearly, its been 3 years of waking up beside her almost every day....had our first night in seperate beds (she was night shift all this week) last night and it felt bizzare.

i dont feel the 5 years have been wasted they have been good, good learning experience, and a lot of love, lorna got sick of tree talk though...

anyway the futures bright so they say....

jamie
 
Sad to hear it Jamie,been there dont it,but i was married.
I lived a single mans life for about 6 years then met my present partner who i`ve been with for nearly 5 years who i have 3 lovely children with.As you say its a learning experiance that you can look back on & it will help you later in life.
 
Pruner1,i know how you must feel,My first wife played around my back & ended up with my sisters boyfriend(nephews dad),this started while i was working away working up in Kielder forest.
I only found this out after we had split.
Hope you get over the stress & you will need a few private jobs to sort your finances out.
 
hey ???? happens, ime over it, got a beaut new bird and things are lookin up apart from the debts. offer agreed on house so fingers crossed. thinking about doing loler assessment and nptc assessors course. i can get a new mountain bike wen the house is sold cos its all going on a bank loan!! bikes, debts, courses and a holiday with the new bird, mint.!!!
 
Jamie, that's bad news. Things may seem weird intially but that's because your in your comfort zone. We soon adapt to changes in cirumstances no matter how much it hurts :(

I've had my fair share of ????e with my missus as well, there was even another bloke involved. It is possible to patch things up and move on..........
 
possible

it is possible but im not holding out much hope,

ive been preparing myself for this for a while, its only been 3 days but we are trying to look forward to the future, new opportunities and all that. the hard bit is the habits we have, cant walk into (what is now) her room (i moved to the spare room) without checking she isn't naked and the force of habit comments....

i'm sure i will live and besides i have trees to prune / kill

jamie
 
bloody hell ,i come here for tree work news etc ,ideas ,and end up reading a bloody mills and boon novel,get a grip ,theres places for this soppy chat and an arborist site aint it ,the yanks must be pissing themselves at you soppy set of sods ,go to the pub and tell ya mates ,see how lomg they put up with it ,give em 5 mins,chuffing hell ,
 
Well i last week bought a new tractor with loader and flail mower and a new ifor williams beaver tail trailer [errr bloody thing wouldn't fit on any of my other trailers]

I intend to use the tractor for log splitting,loading chip,grapple work and flail mowing and anything else that might come in etc etc
 
ROLLACOSTA said:
Well i last week bought a new tractor with loader and flail mower and a new ifor williams beaver tail trailer [errr bloody thing wouldn't fit on any of my other trailers]

I intend to use the tractor for log splitting,loading chip,grapple work and flail mowing and anything else that might come in etc etc
You won the lottery then? ;)
 
:cool: I got 15K's worth of work in, should keep me out of chismief for a week or two
Got all these Poplars to crown raise on the site side. got to fell 10 of the bigger Blacks the middle -
 
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thor,
from the pics only looks like about 3 days work for 2 men, am i missing something or is that the best bit of pricing ever?
 
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