It took me a looooooong time to wrap my stubborn brain around it, but now i just set a wedge ASAP if I have any doubts. Cut an inch, give it a couple taps. Build tension on the wood fiber and release it. Repeat as many times as nesacary. It seems slower, but at the end of the day the counter says otherwise. Plus, you don't beat your brains out, and you don't go through near as many wedges. If something is really up the hill, I just pre-wedge the ####er.
If it's severly up the hill or up the hill and dead, I'll cripple it and green wedge it. The best part of just packing the molly and leaving the axe in the pack is that it makes you think every move out.
......Not that I don't hike to the pack and beat my brains out with my axe once a week or so.......