I've been overloading my trucks for many years. I have found that the reason engines overheat has very little to do with how heavy your load is. Barring mechanical failures and regardless of any cooling problems, the only thing overheating the engine is your foot.
Take your foot off the throttle! If you aren't enough of a truck driver to discover this for yourself without posting a question online, you aren't thinking about it very hard. You are no longer driving your sporty one ton, you have ventured off into the realm of professional drivers, and you need to manage more weight than usual, and it sure seems like you need to manage more weight than your truck was engineered to carry/tow. If you are overheating, then your load is putting more backpressure on the torque converter and crankshaft, causing more heat to flow into your engine block and coolant. Drive slower, don't give it so much gas, and your overheating problems will probably go away. Use low gear going up hills, even if it is an automatic, and don't go further than 1/2 throttle for an extended period.
Now! Many others here have mentioned that you are overloading your brakes. This is probably true, but that isn't the question you wanted an answer to. Just suffice it to say, if your cooling system will be saved by driving slower, so will your brakes and possibly your life.