Dont confuse a 28gpm single stage pump with a 28gpm 2 stage pump. A 28gpm single stage pump will take about 54hp to build 3000psi. A 28gpm two stage pump is only putting out 28gpm in the low pressure mode of the pump. When it starts building high pressure, the flow drops to about 8 or 9gpm and takes much less hp. Also the pump only builds pressure to meet the resistance requirements it encounters. If your cyl is able to split all your wood at less than 3000psi, then your pump will never see 3000psi and your hp requirements will never reach maximum levels.
Also, to answer your question about using diesel engine. Most, if not all the 2 stage splitter pumps give flow rates at 3200-3600 rpms. Now there are a few of the small high rpm diesel engines out there, the Brigg's Vanguard diesel engines are one example. That are rated for 3000+rpms. Sadly most of the small diesels are not rated for those rpms. Doesnt mean you cant hook one up to a 2 stage pump, just that because of the lower rpms of the engines, your 2 stage pump isnt going to produce the advertised flow rates