he said it's a 60ft tree with 7% opposite lean.
i love it when people think they can control a tree with a 1" rope and 3 guys.
So you think it is better to jack a small tree?
You can do quite a bit with a 1/2" rope and 3 guys....even more with a 5 to 1 mechanical advantage or GRCS.....even more with a 12k winch or a 4X4 ton truck....or even a pick up
...however...I don't like pulling back leaners with guys....once it goes the wrong way you are done....a winch or truck will give you stability as well as more power
I would wait for the lady to go to the doctor and then cut the tree. Hell you could have the tree done before she gets back...lol...a little unprofessional but some neighbors need to get a grip on things and chill...
Hell, offer to buy the lady next door a nice dinner or give her a $100 and see if that helps.