i kick my phone's ass as well larry. been through about 10 of them.
so far so good with the one i've got now. supposedly it is shockproof, dust proof, and water resistant (to a point, phone calls in the rain ok but not sending it swimming). it is relatively bombproof. had a couple drops so far with no issues.
from verizon. G'zOne. casio makes it.
it won't set the world on fire like the new ones but it does get on the internet and does all the texting and pic messages and videos.
i also bought the protective shell for it too so that is helping it from getting too beat up.
good luck looking for phones man.