@James Miller , I admire you for having the balls to talk about your past. Kudos, my friend.
There is a young lad I play cricket with, whose brother and father I also play with. He's about 22 and went way off the rails for a year or two. Cocaine mostly. Anyway, he drove home one night completely off with the fairies, hit two parked cars and a cyclist who escaped with scrapes and a broken nose. He came home and had a somewhat fractious relationship with his parents but resumed playing cricket with us and as luck would have it, we took out the premiership last season. Things are much better at home for him now. He got a job with a local builder who took him on with eyes wide open but he is paying his way. He had his court date 2 weeks ago and got off relatively lightly, he lost his drivers licence for 2 years and got 200 hours community service but no conviction and no jail time.
The young fella has realised that the drugs are a dead end and is turning his life around and I'm full of admiration. I admit, I used to have a pretty hard attitude towards those who went down that path but that was mostly my ignorance. Sure, there are plenty who I think need a good kick up the arse, but there are also many who are still good people with plenty to contribute, but need a bit of help and guidance from those that care.
If I must take issue with you, @James Miller , it is that there haven't been enough pics of that oak.
There is a young lad I play cricket with, whose brother and father I also play with. He's about 22 and went way off the rails for a year or two. Cocaine mostly. Anyway, he drove home one night completely off with the fairies, hit two parked cars and a cyclist who escaped with scrapes and a broken nose. He came home and had a somewhat fractious relationship with his parents but resumed playing cricket with us and as luck would have it, we took out the premiership last season. Things are much better at home for him now. He got a job with a local builder who took him on with eyes wide open but he is paying his way. He had his court date 2 weeks ago and got off relatively lightly, he lost his drivers licence for 2 years and got 200 hours community service but no conviction and no jail time.
The young fella has realised that the drugs are a dead end and is turning his life around and I'm full of admiration. I admit, I used to have a pretty hard attitude towards those who went down that path but that was mostly my ignorance. Sure, there are plenty who I think need a good kick up the arse, but there are also many who are still good people with plenty to contribute, but need a bit of help and guidance from those that care.
If I must take issue with you, @James Miller , it is that there haven't been enough pics of that oak.