Well I made some progress with her last evening, she still isn't budging off the same floor in entire house concept. She did agree to get the new flooring, but hold off on installing it till the ceiling is de popcorned, the bay windows and 2 dining room windows are replaced and all the drywall is finished/ painted. We agreed to rip out the breakfast nook too, which will free up a lot of unused space. She started in on the kitchen too, but I'm not seeing how thays feasible right now. Really it's would just be counters and counter tops, all the appliances save the fridge have been replaced in the past 5 ish years. Just more work and money i guess. I'll probably try to farm out the cabinets. She wants live edge counter tops, i can handle making them and coating them with resin.