amen to that, always seems like something unexpected is happening.Life is forever getting wrenches thrown at you to mess up your life. I would start with the kitchen to keep her happy. Prices today have gotten totally out of hand. A good friend of mine priced a simple small bathroom remodel. One guy wanted $15K. Another guy was $7200 for the exact same job.
I wish we remodeled the house right after we bought it, I bet it would have been 1/4 the cost.
She's slowly coming around to doing everything in the order I'd like to do it, and save the floors for last. So that's a positive. Still stuck on one kind of flooring throughout the house.