You've got a grasp of the fundamentals, seems the question you're asking is not so much about how you went on this tree, but how to become a better faller. The short answer is to do a lot of falling. But since you drop trees pretty infrequently, that isn't going to work. Peer review is great, but pro fallers use a lot of techniques that are ideal for their situation, probably less so for yours. You've already received some good critique and advice so I'll just throw in my 2c worth on the general question of how to become a better faller.
Firstly, I'd say avoid complex techniques. sisawheels, dutchmans, etc all have their place, but if you can't execute a good plain face then you don't have the finesse to pull off the more complex stuff. Those trick cuts only get you the last 5% anyhow, 95% of it is just good basic saw work - a good face, and a good back cut.
Use wedges, use a pull rope. Get yourself a throw line, and a rope. Use both, together. You're in the position of needing certainty over production, wedges and a pull rope will give it to you.
Take your time is the most important thing. If you're an infrequent faller, the biggest enemy you have is rushing. Particularly when you get yourself a big'un, the adrenaline will be flowing and you'll be likely to make a mistake, or over do it in a way that you can't correct for. Seriously, take your time. Look up. Look all round the tree. Set a pull rope. Plan your escape (where were you running to in that vid, across the back of the tree instead of away?). Layout your gear.
Mark your tree. Even the very best fallers mark out their trees when faced with a big one. Use sticks, string, or whatever you need. Use chalk, Mark out the face. You've got all the time in the world to cut the face, so use an extra few minutes there. No need to rush in. Do absolutely mark every thing out - gunning cut, face cut, back cut, how much hinge you're going to leave. It will make the job a lot easier, and a lot more accurate. Take your time on cutting that face, even when you've marked it out. Stop and look at the far side, often, or have someone watch it for you so you don't over cut. Make that face something to be proud of.
If you've done all the above, the back cut is almost an afterthought. A well shaped, well cut face, with wedges and a pull rope, a well inspected top, and a well planned escape route sets you up for easy success, at the only part of the job that has a time frame. Use the gunning sites to stay parallel to your face, and take your time, even here. I see more amateurs destroy their hard work by overcutting the hinge on the back cut than by underdoing it. If you've got that pull rope set (don't overdo it there, only just enough to hold the weight of the tree) and wedges, then you've bought yourself some time. That hinge is control. Cut it through and you've lost it.
Shaun