Ha ha, you humblebrag
The stupid games scene women and just scene people in general play drove me away from playing live in a band. It's just so fake. I was a prolific writer and really put out some excellent content, but the dudes who were milking the trends always got more notoriety. In the music scene, there are artists and then there are bar stars. I got so tired of the stupid sh!t and gave it up to write at home for my own pleasure.
If I were smarter I'd cash in on the self producing wave of the internet that is the standard today, but I dropped out of kindergarten because like the live music scene, there were just too many games...
Bars don't want bands to play originals, They want cover bands that play top 40 because thats what everyone wanted to hear. They wanted to hear the same music that was playing in the radio. Some high end clubs would let you play some originals but we still had to also play top 40. Everyone knows the bar scene is a meat market and full of all kinds of people from all walks of life. Your were naive if you thought otherwise.