Yeah, it does look bent... don't it??The photos may be deceiving but it appears the bolt is bent a tiny bit already. I'm guessing the bolt takes some of the force until the ram contacts the back of the wedge so the bolt is flexing slightly every cycle. Can you attach a shim to the end of the ram to be sure it is doing all the pushing force?
I'm not so sure a shim on the end of the cylinder rod would alleviate all the stress to the bolt. When the wedge is pushed into the wood it won't have equal force on both sides, causing the ears to "push" on one side of the bolt, and "pull" on the other. Then the next log may force it the opposite way. Repetitive and opposite deformation...
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