on an obviously much smaller scale:
the only person ive ever had problems collecting money from, from selling firewood, was a cop.
2 cords, paid for the first one cash, dropped off second one when only his wife was there, she knew i was coming, she said she didnt have enough cash on her... "can i mail you a check"... that should have been first red flag, why wouldnt she have a checkbook!?
several weeks go by.. no check in the mail..all my voicemails and emails go unanswered..after about 3 weeks , i get an email back "sorry, life got in the way" is what he says! he says that he SENT the check already, and i should have it in a couple days (he only lives about 12-15 miles away in the first place..) another week goes by.. no check.
i call and email more, no answer from him at all. i try to be nice and ask if maybe he put the wrong address on the envelope, and type out my address for him again to make sure he sent it to the right place and tell him to give me a call, leaving my phone number again... another week+ , no answer. well past a month since i delivered his wood, and no payment. i continue leaving him voicemails about 2 per week, along with emails, no longer being nice, just bluntly saying "its been over a month now, i have no check, you must not have sent it, or its lost in the mail in which case you need to write me a new one or i can come by your house and pick up the money".. i guess my offer to come to his house changed his mind, he finally responds (through email of course) and says that he put the check in the mail 2 weeks ago..still sticking with his story that he "already sent it a couple weeks ago", he leaves it at that. at this point i feel like im about to get screwed, by a cop non the less (surprise surprise)..he just keeps on with his BS story that it was already sent.. i wait a couple days, still no check, its been almost 6 weeks since wood was delivered now, so im calling and emailing still.. saying this is no way to treat me.. i delivered a good product and you are trying to rip me off for a couple hundred bucks..
.. well low and behold, the check finally arrives in the mail, postmarked 3+ weeks AFTER he said so adamantly argued he had sent it... i cant believe he would be dumb enough to think i wouldnt read the date on the envelope when i got it.. he basically strung me along for over a month , lying to me, then finally gave in and wrote me a check after i was up his ass for it for 1 1/2 months.. did he really think i would disappear? at one point i was ready to go get my wood back..im glad it didnt come to that, cause im sure i would have ended up on the losing end of that as usual, him being a cop and all..
the best part of all, after all that last winter, the lies, the games, never apologizing, never thanking me, just disappearing after finally sending the check, he emails me this year for wood again! lol
to make a long story short about this time around, he wanted his 2 cords the second week of october, i tried to schedule delivery with him several times, he took at the very minimum a week, or more, to return each phone call or email, so i gave up on him. he never picks up, he screens all his calls, and tries to communicate only through email. he blew every chance he had at a delivery the past 2 months, and now i got him leaving me voicemails and emails saying that "ive tried getting in touch with you several times and have yet to hear back from you, if youre not selling wood this year, let me know"... i think the guy is insane.. honestly. somethin aint right
turns out my good friend knows him as the neighbor of his ex girlfriend, and validated my story that the guy is weirdo, not that i needed any validation.
thats my little rrant about collecting money from idiots.
my lesson learned: no checks for firewood!
*sorry for the off topic hijack*
hope you get your money, persistence pays off, a lot of people think youll give up and disapear, especially if its only a couple hundred bucks, show them how wrong they are, and they will eventually cave!