I am glad that you are OK. Hang in there. There were a lot of people concerned, including me.
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catman963
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Hope things get better for ya!!
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Evan,
Hang in there...Love, Kindness, understanding, and compassion go a long way in this world...if you plant the seeds you will get a great harvest.
Hang in there...Love, Kindness, understanding, and compassion go a long way in this world...if you plant the seeds you will get a great harvest.
Met a guy working at this ore mill, both of us single and both just started building our homes, alone and by hand. We became buddies and would get together one evening a week to NOT work on the houses and get a break and down a couple of brews and ponder how tough it was working all day and building a house at night.
Several yr. later, both living in our homes now, no mortgages as we paid cash as we went, which took us both years to get 'em done on hourly wages. We're both married, he's got a toddler. Wife dumps him, runs off with someone else, judge gave her 1/2 the value of the house. He had the house totally done by the time he met his future wife. He had to take out a mortgage to pay her off, 20 yr. later he's still paying on the mortgage. He's got a seriously bad attitude toward marriage [and judges], let me tell you. Mine's great, still together and still no mortgage. I guess that makes it 50% chance of it being great or a nightmare.
Several yr. later, both living in our homes now, no mortgages as we paid cash as we went, which took us both years to get 'em done on hourly wages. We're both married, he's got a toddler. Wife dumps him, runs off with someone else, judge gave her 1/2 the value of the house. He had the house totally done by the time he met his future wife. He had to take out a mortgage to pay her off, 20 yr. later he's still paying on the mortgage. He's got a seriously bad attitude toward marriage [and judges], let me tell you. Mine's great, still together and still no mortgage. I guess that makes it 50% chance of it being great or a nightmare.
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cuttinstuff
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I am on my second. The first was pure hell.
The second is just the opposite, best thing that ever happened to me.
IF you have 2 people committed to making it work, then it will work. Problem now a days is most people don't want to hang in during the bad times, when the going gets rough they are gone.
The second is just the opposite, best thing that ever happened to me.
IF you have 2 people committed to making it work, then it will work. Problem now a days is most people don't want to hang in during the bad times, when the going gets rough they are gone.
That would put him around Genesee. I grew up not far from there in Orofino.
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i was thinking he was from Sandpoint ID, but that may be someone else that i am thinking about.
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cuttinstuff's right...it takes two committed people to make a marriage work...we all got character defects that others have to live with (Mrs. Bounty Hunter is a good example of patience and tolerance...I've got LOTS of character defects).
But we have been married 27 years, never had a fight (or even raised our voices at one another), and have never spent a night apart (I slept on the floor in her hospital room all three times for all three kids...), the point being I have always been there for her, and she for me. Total trust is key...if either partner has doubts or suspicions...brother, you have problems.
Trust and love can lead you two into new levels of joy and great life experience...my wife and I share in all things, including woodcutting.
She has her own Stihl ms 260 Pro and ms200T, and will happily take a turn with one of the ms440s. She also runs the log splitter, as she is the only one I trust to operate the ram when it's my paws in there positioning the wood!
She's also darn good with her Kimber 1911 .45, Winchester .30-06, and her Marlin .22 mag varmit rifle.
What I am trying to say here is marriage is a partnership that gets stronger and better when your two separate lives are grafted together...the way a grafted tree can be better and stronger than either of its original stock. "One flesh" the Bible calls it...living together and promoting everything you can to find and strengthen common interests in work, play, time off and time on. Love and Patience...not something we are born with...are the keys to great relationships. Be committed, stay committed, nurture your marriage like the precious gift that it is...protect it from any threat...from within or from without...and "Never Give An Inch".
But we have been married 27 years, never had a fight (or even raised our voices at one another), and have never spent a night apart (I slept on the floor in her hospital room all three times for all three kids...), the point being I have always been there for her, and she for me. Total trust is key...if either partner has doubts or suspicions...brother, you have problems.
Trust and love can lead you two into new levels of joy and great life experience...my wife and I share in all things, including woodcutting.
She has her own Stihl ms 260 Pro and ms200T, and will happily take a turn with one of the ms440s. She also runs the log splitter, as she is the only one I trust to operate the ram when it's my paws in there positioning the wood!
She's also darn good with her Kimber 1911 .45, Winchester .30-06, and her Marlin .22 mag varmit rifle.
What I am trying to say here is marriage is a partnership that gets stronger and better when your two separate lives are grafted together...the way a grafted tree can be better and stronger than either of its original stock. "One flesh" the Bible calls it...living together and promoting everything you can to find and strengthen common interests in work, play, time off and time on. Love and Patience...not something we are born with...are the keys to great relationships. Be committed, stay committed, nurture your marriage like the precious gift that it is...protect it from any threat...from within or from without...and "Never Give An Inch".
things may not be as bad as i thought. i kinda posted without thinking, then got busy cutn wood and doin yardsale crap and camping. kept me away for a few days. im back now i think.
my cad mixed with almost no work for months on end may make bad combination. work is scarece here. anyways were still livin on the same money weve always been just its getn close to running out with none comeing in for so long.
funkysaw man lives a few minutes from canada way up north. im more central idaho bout 8 hours from him i think its 500 miles or so.
you guys would all love the country he lives in. lots of trees and big country.
lets let this thread get a few pages back incase my wife does happen to look at this site.
im working on my grammer, realy i am.
anyways thank you all for worrieing. i gota go pick up the kids.
thanks
Evan
my cad mixed with almost no work for months on end may make bad combination. work is scarece here. anyways were still livin on the same money weve always been just its getn close to running out with none comeing in for so long.
funkysaw man lives a few minutes from canada way up north. im more central idaho bout 8 hours from him i think its 500 miles or so.
you guys would all love the country he lives in. lots of trees and big country.
lets let this thread get a few pages back incase my wife does happen to look at this site.
im working on my grammer, realy i am.
anyways thank you all for worrieing. i gota go pick up the kids.
thanks
Evan
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Blazin
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The ole rule of thumb....never trust somethin that bleeds for 7 days and don't die...........
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What was that Warren Zevon song?
Send lawyers, guns and chainsaws,
The :censored: has hit the fan!
Send lawyers, guns and chainsaws,
The :censored: has hit the fan!
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Erick
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Just bump'n it for ya Evan. 
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That's funny.
Just remember, there are only 2 times in a man's life that he doesn't understand a woman.
That would be before he gets married and after he gets married.
