I'll keep this firewood related. It's still long.
My grandfather had a trucking company for many years and my dad worked soooo many hours for less than he was worth trying to keep it alive. During the gas crunch of the '70s we just couldn't afford much heating oil. He'd take 5 gallons of diesel each night from whatever truck Grandpa let him drive home and that was our heat for the next 24 hrs. I remember trying to set up dominoes on the kitchen floor and my hands shaking so bad they kept falling over. Dad bought a small box stove from a neighbor with $$ he borrowed from his brother who was living the "hippie life" in a barn. He did his best to build a masonry chimney, and we became wood burners.
Dad's one of those guys that most folks call "book smart" so learning to cut and burn wood was an adventure. In truth most things we did together was an adventure. And many times it seemed like I as the kid could see what he as the adult couldn't which made it tough. He was a proud man then and didn't believe a child should know more than an adult. We argued then and we argue still today. But I have fond memories of making "logs" because he assigned me the job of rolling sticks tightly into newspapers the first year, and of searching through the 100 year old apple orchard behind the house for dead branches to burn, and later of going out to get wood. Dad would borrow Grandpa's big, blue Clinton saw and a company truck and we'd scrounge wood. At one point Dad was picking up bits left by a logger and often over the next few years we'd drive a couple of towns away to land owned by Grandpa to get wood. As I type this I realize we never really had much of a wood pile so we must have burned quite a bit green or at least wet. Dad was afraid of the stove and would never let it get very hot or burn overnight so it wasn't long before I volunteered to sit with the fire overnight in the basement. I dragged home a chair my friend's dad was throwing out and cleared out a spot by the stove and that was my bed for much of the winter. I kept it good and warm in the house.
Years after my parent's divorce I'd found a friend that was kind of like the dad I'd never had. He let me work out of his shop building stuff, fixing cars, and doing all sorts of things and was a mentor as life just seemed to be heading the wrong way. He also taught me how to really work. Among the many things he did to make money was selling firewood. I didn't get to run the saw but I spent many hours helping his 80 year old mother lifting wood to put on the splitter, stacking it, loading it into the truck, unloading it for customers then stacking it again. Eventually I graduated to driving the truck to make deliveries solo. I was 18 or so at the time and I had a lot of pent up anger that I worked out with a 9 lb maul and the pieces of wood that were too large for the splitter. Although I never ran the saw I learned much more than if I'd been allowed to. I learned what trees are good for firewood, how to sharpen a chain, how to maintain the saw, how stacking a cord when your buying wood is different from stacking a cord when you're selling it...
Many years later I bought my first house, this house, and our first night here the boiler used nearly 1/4 tank of oil. I could see this wasn't going to work so I went down to the hardware store and bought a bow saw, scrounged up some dead wood around the place, and fired up the tiny potbelly stove in the kitchen. Nine years later I'm pretty well entrenched in the life and I love it. My chainsaw collection seems to be growing on its own, I've got enough wood to stay warm for a couple of years, and I'm doing my best to make sure my five year old son knows the value of hard work and to make sure that if he finds himself reading stories of folks reminiscing about dad that he's got more good memories than bad.