He should pay the return shipping if he wants positive feedback or work out some compensation. The picture is misleading, the wording in the discription looks pickled, looks to me he discribed and made it look like a much better bar then actual, then the mount thing. I don't like giving negative feedback but I will if I am sure they were deceptive and not willing to take back the item at their expense for shipping. If it clearly was my mistake I don't mind paying shipping both ways as a seller or a buyer.
If I were in your position I would tell him what you expect at this point and if he gives you a hard time give him appropriate feedback so the rest of the ebay community has a chance to see what to expect from him as a seller. He already has 1 each negative and neutral in the last month. He should be at least fairly concerned about his ratings dropping anymore.
John, you can bet I did tell him exactly what I thought and expected. He also told me that there was no way he would pay the return shipping but he would take the bar back. That's not good enough for me.
But I think he also covered himself good enough to make it a real hassle to prove it in a dispute, not that I might not be able to make it stick, but I'm getting too tired to fight this BS now.
You can bet that I will be leaving him a neg on his feedback. Just trying to figure how to word it correctly in the small space allowed.