This is a picture of the actual check valve kit , the brass insert is upside down to show the diameter of the hole that said diaphragm is supposed to be squeezed through? If someone can post on how to do that with confidence that the new diaphragm( new diaphragm shown)is not injured I'd be impressed.
The removal is pretty easy and doesn't really require any special tools.
I modified a wood screw so that the tip doesn't plow into the aluminum body when screwed into the brass.
Drive the new brass insert down ,and make sure you drove it past the ports.
This is what it looked like before ,looks good but cheese cloth thin and wore out.
The brass insert I removed could be reused but its rare that happens.