yes. the return line enters the bottom of the boiler, your feed line should be coming out of the top.
since a boiler system is a "closed loop" type, the pumps neither suck or pull water. they simply move the water..
think of your OWB heat exchanger as just another way to heat your water, in lieu of using the flames from your gas/oil burners. your OWB isn't considered a "closed loop" since it should have no pressure (unlike your home boiler)
the OWB heats it's own water, that water runs into your heat exchanger. it does not mix in any way with the water from your main boiler. all it does is flows into a manifold, and that manifold heats the surrounding water. however, that surrounding water is used by your main boiler system.
so, when your home boiler turns on and calls for heat, as it pumps the water thru the system, it will circulate the water from the heat exchanger. the heat exchanger should be located just before it enters the main boiler. that way, your main boiler can 'sense" the water temperature and either call for a flame or not. if your OWB has heated the water to al least the minimum degree setting, no flame should turn on, and the system should work like it's supposed to.
your pumps should be enough to move the water and i can't see why any additional pumps are needed, unless you need a pump on the OWB to circulate that water.