Sorry about your buddy Cody.
I ran over a dog one time, right in front of the owners, the good thing(if any) was that the dog just ran straight out and went under my van, I could not have done anything as it came out between a couple houses. I stopped and the owner was apologizing as was I, the dog walked away, probably wondering what we were talking about, it was all quite odd.
This was basically my father in law, he has a past with running dogs over, none of which were really his fault but he felt horrible last night. I called him after a bit and I could tell he was rather upset. I'm sure he just couldn't see Toby over the hood of his truck, and with Toby being slow to get up he probably couldn't get out of the way. These are things that I knew though, so we usually just drove around him but you're not doing the dog a favor in that sense as he expected that at this point. I've had to stop with the tractor even just to allow him to get up, so I can't help but think that it's really my own fault. It is what it is at this point though, and he's pain free. That's what matters to me.
I 'liked' your post to acknowledge it but I'm terribly sorry to read about your furry mate. You can get another dog but the one you lost is not replaceable. I'm sorry it happened in such a bad way as well.
A few blokes I have spoken to in the last week or so after we put my little mate down have told me that they would never get another dog or cat again because they were so traumatised after losing one in the past. I suspect that men suffer more than women or kids with the loss of a pet. I reckon that most dogs (and some cats) possess characteristics that appeal more to the male psyche - and their behaviour can be much like that of men (beta males excluded) in that you can have a bust up with them but quickly get over it as the essential trust remains, which it always does with your little pal. Very sad news, Cody.
I like dogs more than people, most days. That's the third one I've lost in the past 8 years or so, with the first two being the hardest as they were young, with one of them literally being my best friend. The first one was hard though, coming home and not knowing she was there killed me, I bet I cried for two weeks on that one. We were down to just Toby at that point and I kept saying no more dogs as well, at least until he passes. We still have two, as we got one 2 years ago, and just picked up a Catahoula here a couple months ago. Never fun to see someone lose a dog, but it brings so much joy to see dogs in people's lives. I've always said it, dogs truly are man's best friend.
Sorry for your loss. The pic was for another post. Since it' here we thought Diesels hips were going bad last year. He's Pit/Canecorso cross with game drive for days. Took off across the field last summer after a groundhog and it looked like his back legs just stopped working. Vets couldn' find anything wrong he walked with a severe limp for weeks. We still don't know what happened.
Toby liked to wander off, and if I didn't find him he usually made it back home. Last year he got tangled up in a root ball along the river and some people canoeing found him. It definitely slowed him down but that dog still just loved to wander around. I remember when he was young, I took him for a walk at a park to the north of us, only to end up looking for him for over 3 hours. Got back to the spot I last seen him and there he was, he loved being outside, his nose just got him in to trouble.
@Cody Sorry to hear. Couple things resort me to weakness and that's anything hurtful to do with the kids/family or losing a pet. They always say well you gave them a great 14 years but it doesn't dull the feeling of loss.
It is gut wrenching to have to make the call on putting down a good pet, especially a loyal dog. I have had to do it too many times. I know people who will never have another after going through it, and my wife wanted to go down that road.
I pointer out to her that w/o that one bad day, we would not have had all the good ones, the hikes, walks and other adventures. I told her "in balance" you have to go on. Like my Dad used to say, "life is for the living."
We currently have 2 dogs, and it would be more, but I put the lid on it. I told her I only have 2 hands, we can only have 2 dogs!
I'm going to miss having that dog outside. I'd imagine it's the same when all of us are splitting wood, you look up every now and then to see what's happening around you. A lot of times I'd see him laying/walking around, and once in awhile he'd sneak up behind you and push his nose into your leg. He's done more laying around than anything though this spring and last fall. I didn't want to wait for the vet as he was out on a call and it would have been nearly 2 hours for him to come, so had to resort to the old fashioned, "take him behind the shed" method. Damn hard thing to do. Not sure if it hasn't fully hit me yet, or just that I'm truly happy to know that he's at peace. I'll have to keep your 2 dogs, 2 hands comment in mind next time I hear someone wanting another one.