Ambull01
Addicted to ArboristSite
In order of volume here is where it went:
Friends' fire pits
Children's camp
My boiler
My fire pits
My sauna
You need some help cutting? My Makita needs more of a workout.
Update Gentlemen...I'm off work this week, doing a little bit of pre-rut hunting. Rained yesterday, today...pretty typical when you take off, go figure.
I did a lotta soul searching last night about my galfriend...stayed up all night. I packed all of her things from my home today in 13-gal Hefty 'Samsonites'...gave her a call. Told her come in peace, get your things in peace, leave in peace. Sayin she wasn't expecting it would be an understatement. I never one time, since we met back in '08, asked her for a dime much less a dollar, to do heating/AC, condensers/air handler units, wiring, plumbing, electrical, painting, remodeling work...on her rental houses. She got a damn good ride at my gray hair, high blood pressure ass, expense. We had some good times fellas, good vacations...but when the bad outnumbers those 20:1, somethings gotta give. Pretty soon we'd a hit the ol skool 32:1 premix ratio, lol. I'm 48 yrs old fellas...ain't no spring chicken no more. And if I keep up with this ****, I'll be dead by 50. Gone.
...when your own 24 yr old son and your 17 yr old daughter, especially, tells ya if ya don't stop this relationship, quit runnin yourself ragged trying every evening and every night, keepin up with a business that I cared more for than she did...you're gonna work yourself straight into the ground. My daytime job is bad enough pressure, keeping them damn C-17's ferrying Marines, soldiers, warfighters, around this globe. They gotta fly...
I can't add on all my fingers and toes, times 10, how many evenings I missed with my own children, in the last several yrs, helping this gal. One thing I never did was miss my daughters basketball, volleyball, softball games.
I shed a tear or ten last night...I think it was the best move I could make...and I took it, for my own health and happiness. Ain't never been into her addictions, pills, etc, and never will be. I gave this gal my best...it ain't worth no early grave.
I appreciate everyone who read my previous posts about this relationship. Sorry I aired my laundry...I appreciate you folks being a sounding board and your inputs...I really do.
Scrounge on...you wood cuttin fools.
Yep, sometimes it's best to cut your losses. My current wife is freaking awesome! Don't really believe in soul mates but if I did she would be it. Makes a huge difference being in a relationship where there's mutual respect, sacrifice, and open communication.
I'm taking off the rest of the week too. Probably shouldn't but I'm freaking done with this place lol. Probably the worst manager I've ever had to work under. Really nice guy but just an utter lack of leadership. He's retiring in two years so he's just basically passing time until he goes out the door for good. Tonight I'll sharpen all my chains and wreak havoc on some logs tomorrow.