Also with a new chain it kept getting loose, so I kept retensioning it, so I don't think that was the issue.
When I first found this site, I was using standard motor oil for the bar and had noticed I was constantly retensioning my chains. I thought the bar was slipping. After going to bona-fide bar oil, I rarely have to re-adjust - maybe a little more with a new chain. The chain and bar are fairly warm right after a heavy cut, but in a few minutes, no problem touching. Keep in mind, the limit of human tolerance to hot water is only about 112 deg F., so this could just be a matter of perception.
I've heard the Motion Lotion is good stuff, but I've never tried it.