bcorradi
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Brad, no, I didn't lose any real money per se, its more the principle of the thing, combined with the big shot attitude on the dump truck thread that he's making 1/2 a million without trying, but can't pay his bills. I finally heard enough big shot routiene and figured I'd remind him of this. I actually expected he'd calm down a bit and at least gimme a reason why he decided not to bother, but instead he went beserk and threatened to sue me if I ask about it ever again. anyone on this site whom knows anything about me, knows I don't respond favorably to threats, much the opposite really.
why didn't I tell him to fook off and sell to someone else? well, he kept in contact for a while and made it clear that he really wanted the saw and we've all had times when nothing goes right and pay is a little slow. so I was understanding, maybe for too long. as time progressed and this kept going the way it was going, I decided to say heck with it and not ever try to sell on here again. one bad apple spoils the whole batch kinda thing. no, I don't lump everyone together in the same batch as him, but I'm sure if you read to here, that you can understand where I'm comming from. I've had enough headache on this first time to want to try it all over again.
Now I'm sorry you have been playing devils advocate Brad, I really am. afterall, please tell me where I did wrong by him? I was honest, understanding and patient. some folks like to confuse kindness for weakness. again, if you know me, you know thats not the case. I can get along with anyone, but when I reach my limit, I'm done. most times someone ends up very hurt, and I have an extreemly long memory. I'm not trying to talk tough, I'm just being honest. I could see if both parties were perhaps wrong Brad, but thats not the case here. to infer that I am somehow to blame for even a part of this is not acting very nicely.
Thats enough for now. I'm beat. hard day and I didn't need to come home to this anyway.
thanks to all who read the posts and understand what transpired, and why I mentioned it to him in the first place.
-Ralph
What I'm trying to get at is everyone seems to be trying to twist it and say that your out a lot of $ when in fact you aren't. Yes the guy totally misled you and because of your extreme patience, you are the one that ended up getting screwed in the end. I totally agree you got a bum deal, but reality is, your case isn't isolated at all, and it could have been a lot worse. Within the past year, I've gotten taken on two dealings (about $350 total) over the internet. I didn't receive saws/merchandise that was misrepresented, I didn't receive the items at all. It totally stunk losing that money, but there isn't much I can do about it. In a perfect world, everyone would be honest, but we all know thats not the case. A thread in which the sole purpose is to bash someone that will probably never read it anyhow, doesn't help anyone of us out. The time would be better well spent on gathering tips/ideas that we all can use to better protect ourselves as buyers and sellers. I do think Jazak is a moron, and I do think your a nice guy, but your extreme niceness and patience is what caused you all the grief over this transaction.