A woman's wisdom is all too often underrated. This is some good solid objective clarification on more than a few points from an apparent cool head.
That is certainly welcome here, even if it does come from 'Bob's better half.' It more than buys you a credible position in the matter.
I realize to some I'm perhaps a 'disinterested party,' however I assure you all I'm quite interested. I'm interested in assisting in the peaceful and professional resolution of this matter. It affects our industry, it affects livelihoods. Why should I be a passive observer if I have something of value to add?
This is a public forum, though we are all here by privilege.
IMHO, it's really beyond who made what mistake. It is apparent that many mistakes where made on many sides. We are all human.
So then it follows that it is not the mistakes alone, but just how we go about solving them that matters.
If both sides can agree to no more instigation, no more tit for tat, and instead start giving to one another what is needful for a solid resolution, then I believe this is time well spent.
For starters, some open and honest apologies would work miracles from both sides for both sides.
There are two clear paths here: Fuss and fight and continue to corrode the matter, or work together to resolve.
Both sides have lost somewhat here. Whether or not final resolution can be considered successful shouldn't be a battle wherein we see who loses the least from here vs. who loses the most, rather that further lose is minimized proportionally for both sides through cooperation.
I realize that the matter is complex, and some trust has been lost. Some must be recovered in order to press on.
I also understand that $2600 has been refunded already. That is a fine point of departure. TTM has agreed to make the voyage to see what ADI will do.
Excellent. Let's everyone stop the bashing and continue in this vein of encouragement. Both sides need it.
I for one am going to take Mrs. Tressler's suggestion. I have one more thing left to do for the matter and then I'm going to go stoke up my stove and sharpen chains...or something.
I would First off like to offer my sincere and honest apologies to this forum for ever letting it get this far.
Second like to offer my sincere and honest apologies, TO TONY KEMP OF KEMP TREE SERVICE for failing to provide a quality piece of equipment he entrusted me to get for him. If
Tony takes this lift to Houston I will PAY (WORLDWIDE CONSTRUCTION EQUIPMENT, INC.) for his TIME and FUEL, (YES THIS IS TRUE AND IN WRITING YOU ARE ALL ARE MY WITNESS TO THIS GESTURE) And for my terroristic threat of coming to TEXAS and shoving the lift in question up his ass sideways, I believe that should cover it again my sincere apologies.
*Somebody in this forum had asked that question and I agreed to it. Makes all the sense in the world. I believe it would also be the right thing to do for Kemp Tree Service.