Well where the Hell have you been Professor? Yeah its long winded yet its also not easy to lay out in proper thought succession. I am no author.
Its not about forgivness . Its over.. I am paying. There is nothing to forgive. The guy isn't doing it out of malice. He is doing it out of defense. . This is his thought process. Yes, a warped process aposed to my thinking, but still its what he believes. I am still pondering over him declared himself "feeling funny" about the issue of paying for the item only after hearing the cost.
My feeling is that IF where me, I would feel much funnier dealing with a notoriously touchy subject such as money amongst friends, then I ever would Just paying out of pocket. Let me say again, neither of us are taxed for $. I am single and can easily pay the cost. He has affluent and sports a six figure making mate.
The issue is that now that I know his views and his prefrence to debate this over just remedying it, I no longer can feel the same about this person. not due to my loss or a grudge, but because his sentiment towards myself is offensive to me. I gave and treated in this long lived relationship in a manner I felt was mutual and would be gladly reciprocated. I was VERY wrong
Advice?